Unlike tour pro's you do not have a caddie every time you play. If you did I am sure there would be a great deal of conversation going on between you.
A good caddie advises on club selection, yardages etc., but his/her primary role will be to keep his player calm, focused, offer encouragement and to show an even temperament. If the caddie spoke to his/her player like you speak to yourself on the course how long do you think he/she would remain in employment?
Next time you play, do yourself a favour and begin to speak to yourself out on the course in the same manner as a really good caddie would. Encourage yourself, make sensible decisions and pick yourself up when need be.
If you can achieve this it will certainly make your game more rewarding and enjoyable.
Geoff Yates
golfcoach1@yahoo.co.uk